Monday, October 15, 2012

Boi Starts To Learn to Be an Alpha

Boi has been wanting to be an Alpha Slave for master for some time. I have had only one other Alpha in my expereince as a master. That Alpha is in NYC completing his master's at NYU. He trains slaves I send to him in the New York City area. I have known the first Alpha for over 5 years, having trained him through his undergrad years.

The use of Alphas by masters is pretty limited as most master are very possessive regarding their slaves and dislike sharing. To be a successful Alpha you must be  at least 50/50in regard to your sub/dom role comfort zone. It is unlikely that a sub who is only a little bit dom will never be a good Alpha.

For those unfamiliar with this concept, the Alpha role is similar to that of an alpha dog who leads the pack, for example in dog sled teams. He acts on behalf on his master in training, counseling, and even punishing, the master's property. The Alpha is still subservient to the Master in all.

For me to make Boi an Alpha, he first had to convince me by his thought and actions that he was capable and responsible.  So far he is an "Alpha with training wheels". He shares all the discussions and activities he has with the newbie slave that he was given with me. He is free to ask my advice off line regarding his relationship and the training of the newbie slave.

In my case, I do not come between the Alpha and the newbie slave, in the slave's training.  The newbie slave knows that I am the Alpha's master and that he has been assigned to the Alpha, as his slave, and takes all direction from him.However,  I will approve the limits for the newbie slave.

As you see below Boi is quite taken with his newbie slave, but understands his responsibility.  It is interesting that Boi is basing his training of newbie on what he is learning from this master...that relationship between us is the standard that he is striving to use, as he goes forward. At some point, he will hit a bump in the road, as all slaves are different and need different things, just as all relationships are different...but we will see...meanwhile the training wheels are still bolted on.

--Master

1 comment:

  1. I have never heard of this method of training, as boi being an Alpha. Thats is just a great idea! And makes sense for the 'switches' in the kink world!

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