Hey everyone,
This is your friendly neighborhood boi. I want to talk about the trust between a master and his boy(s).
The foundation of a master/slave relationship from the boy's perspective is for him to find safety in his master and trusting him completely.
It's been my experience that too many masters do not understand or buy into this concept. In these situations they just expect the boy to obey his master without question and without any regard to the well being and safety of the boy.
I believe, when the boy is the property of his master and is supposed to follow orders, it is the responsibility of the master nurture to a relationship of trust between him and his boy. When a master is untruthful and incites mistrust , it is not conducive to a good or healthy bond between the master and his slave. The owned boy always trusts his master completely and reaches out to him for support security he finds in his master and believes it is there.
The boy only wants to please his master and in return is seeking the safety and security from the control of his master. Once again, that is based on the boy's trust of his master. If a boy trusts his master, he will not hesitate to do anything for him. If the trust is broken, it can be very unhealthy and dangerous for the boy.
In the very recent past, I had blindly trusted and obeyed every command that was given by my previous master, including him ordering me to be fucked bareback (BB) without protection, even though we both had agreed in advance that BB was a limit. .Unprotected sex is something I very rarely did and onlyafter having both being tested and in a committed mono relationship of several months.
Once I had given in to him that one time, he told me to suck it up and just take his seed in the ass again and again. Then I found from a friend of mine, and a plethora of other people, that he was lying to me about his HIV status.
Repeatedly, he told me he was HIV negative and scarily even after I had the opposite information, I still wanted to trust, because he was my master. At first, I went to him seeking security, rather than listening to my friends who were trying to protect me. I did this l because I thought I had safety with him and wanted to be able to trust him and not believe that he would lie to me about anything, much less something as serious as this. He was my master after all.
Then it hit me, it sunk in, he was not trust worthy and I had the obligation to protect myself. So now from personal experience, I have learned a valuable lesson, even though the consequences still remain unknown. I am currently still in the process of getting tested, and am scared even more for several reasons that I will not mention here.
As you can imagine, I have been scared and worried about the result of each test over the required 3 month period. My new master was not aware of what had happened, and recently found me in a not so great emotional state because of this, as my next test date approaches this next week. A couple of nights ago, I was extremely distraught and on the verge of tears, sitting in my car wanting to drink myself into a stupor, when he im'ed.
He had me video call him back right then, and after I unloaded it all on him, he told me to give myself a hug since he couldn't be there. It is because of this comforting, and knowing that he does actually care about the well being of his boi, that I can talk about it today. I also want to share with all slaves/submissive like me, the responsibility that you have to protect yourself. I don;t want anyone to go through what I am going though of living in absolute fear as a consequence of my misplaced trust and just being dumb. It has taken a lot of work to be able to trust another man after this experience, but with my new master I have become more and more trusting as my training goes on and our relationship grows. It is true that each master is different.
In conclusion, the trust between the master and slave is what builds a firm foundation between the two individuals. To all masters I say be responsible and give your boy the trust and the security he needs and deserves to be able to submit himself to you.
Respectfully,
--Boi
ps: see below how boi felt after talking about all this to his new master
This is your friendly neighborhood boi. I want to talk about the trust between a master and his boy(s).
The foundation of a master/slave relationship from the boy's perspective is for him to find safety in his master and trusting him completely.
It's been my experience that too many masters do not understand or buy into this concept. In these situations they just expect the boy to obey his master without question and without any regard to the well being and safety of the boy.
I believe, when the boy is the property of his master and is supposed to follow orders, it is the responsibility of the master nurture to a relationship of trust between him and his boy. When a master is untruthful and incites mistrust , it is not conducive to a good or healthy bond between the master and his slave. The owned boy always trusts his master completely and reaches out to him for support security he finds in his master and believes it is there.
The boy only wants to please his master and in return is seeking the safety and security from the control of his master. Once again, that is based on the boy's trust of his master. If a boy trusts his master, he will not hesitate to do anything for him. If the trust is broken, it can be very unhealthy and dangerous for the boy.
In the very recent past, I had blindly trusted and obeyed every command that was given by my previous master, including him ordering me to be fucked bareback (BB) without protection, even though we both had agreed in advance that BB was a limit. .Unprotected sex is something I very rarely did and onlyafter having both being tested and in a committed mono relationship of several months.
Once I had given in to him that one time, he told me to suck it up and just take his seed in the ass again and again. Then I found from a friend of mine, and a plethora of other people, that he was lying to me about his HIV status.
Repeatedly, he told me he was HIV negative and scarily even after I had the opposite information, I still wanted to trust, because he was my master. At first, I went to him seeking security, rather than listening to my friends who were trying to protect me. I did this l because I thought I had safety with him and wanted to be able to trust him and not believe that he would lie to me about anything, much less something as serious as this. He was my master after all.
Then it hit me, it sunk in, he was not trust worthy and I had the obligation to protect myself. So now from personal experience, I have learned a valuable lesson, even though the consequences still remain unknown. I am currently still in the process of getting tested, and am scared even more for several reasons that I will not mention here.
As you can imagine, I have been scared and worried about the result of each test over the required 3 month period. My new master was not aware of what had happened, and recently found me in a not so great emotional state because of this, as my next test date approaches this next week. A couple of nights ago, I was extremely distraught and on the verge of tears, sitting in my car wanting to drink myself into a stupor, when he im'ed.
He had me video call him back right then, and after I unloaded it all on him, he told me to give myself a hug since he couldn't be there. It is because of this comforting, and knowing that he does actually care about the well being of his boi, that I can talk about it today. I also want to share with all slaves/submissive like me, the responsibility that you have to protect yourself. I don;t want anyone to go through what I am going though of living in absolute fear as a consequence of my misplaced trust and just being dumb. It has taken a lot of work to be able to trust another man after this experience, but with my new master I have become more and more trusting as my training goes on and our relationship grows. It is true that each master is different.
In conclusion, the trust between the master and slave is what builds a firm foundation between the two individuals. To all masters I say be responsible and give your boy the trust and the security he needs and deserves to be able to submit himself to you.
Respectfully,
--Boi
ps: see below how boi felt after talking about all this to his new master
I can understand how you feel in this.
ReplyDeleteI recently had a scare while taking a regular test, the rapid blood test showed a faint pink line (poz would show a bright red one). For awhile I was scared to think that at 18 years of age, I contracted HIV!!! I still am waiting on the full blood work. But was able to take a saliva test that showed negative, so I feel much better now!!!